價格：免費
更新日期：2020-03-21
檔案大小：89 MB
目前版本：2
版本需求：系統需求：iOS 10.0 或以後版本。相容裝置：iPhone、iPad、iPod touch。
支援語言：英語
In Mandy Len Catron’s Modern Love essay, “To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This,” she refers to a study by the psychologist Arthur Aron (and others) that explores whether intimacy between two strangers can be accelerated by having them ask each other a specific series of personal questions.
The idea is that mutual vulnerability fosters closeness. To quote the study’s authors, “One key pattern associated with the development of a close relationship among peers is sustained, escalating, reciprocal, personal self-disclosure.” Allowing oneself to be vulnerable with another person can be exceedingly difficult, so this exercise forces the issue.
The final task Ms. Catron and her friend try — staring into each other’s eyes for four minutes — is less well documented, with the suggested duration ranging from two minutes to four. But Ms. Catron was unequivocal in her recommendation. “Two minutes is just enough to be terrified,” she told me. “Four really goes somewhere.”
With this app, you have those 36 questions right in your pocket. So get cozy with your partner, grab a drink, make yourself comfortable and get ready to get to know your date on a whole other, more intimate, level.
The questions are available in English, French, Dutch and Russian.